Wealth-Creation Mindset

Wealth-Creation Mindset

On 19 March 2011, I almost died.

I was driving on a three-lane highway coming back from Kuala Lumpur.

It was a hearty drive back after feasting on the renowned “Yong Tau Foo” at Jalan Ampang.

I was driving on the fast lane at a speed that was, let’s just say, normal; in other words, fast.

It was dark and drizzling for most part of the journey. A journey that I’ve covered countless number of times but little did I know this time it would be different.

We had just passed Ayer Keroh when I saw one car after another ramming into each other.

Finally, there were five cars which piled up just a short distance ahead of me.

I quickly jammed on my brakes but the car did not stop. It continued to move forward at an almost heart-stopping pace.

It was almost like watching a frame-by-frame photo finish of a car race except that it was more like a slow motion race to the end of my life.

I had lost control of the car and was watching it skidding towards the silhouette of another car. What happened next was a loud bang that shook me to the core of my bones.

Despite being held by the seat belt, I was thrown forward. I could have been thrown out through the windscreen and it would have been a horrible way to end my life.

My face would have been smashed, scarred and cut, with blood streaming all over. I could see myself lying in the rain, a broken man with unfinished dreams.

No, that did not happened.

The car’s airbag had been activated within a split second and held me back. Still, I ended up with bruises on my hands and face.

Then the bonnet and interior of my car suddenly burst into smoke.

A quick thought flashed across my mind. An explosion could happen and there might not be enough time for me to escape from it.

I might end up being scalded and burnt alive by the resulting fire.

I literally jumped out of the car for fear of the worst.

For a long time I stood in the rain watching the traffic moving at a snail’s pace. The scene was an absolute pandemonium.

Bright vehicle lights were shining all around me. People were screaming confusing instructions.

In the nearby bushes, children were crying loudly. Curious people were staring at us from passing cars and I was staring back at them, mindlessly.

At that moment, I was shell-shocked and my mind was a complete blank.

Much later, at the police station, I realised that I had escaped three potential deaths.

First, if I were driving a car like the one in front of me, I would not have an airbag. I could have died on the spot.

Second, when I crashed into the car in front of me, there was an old and beaten-up car which was running slightly adjacent to the car before and hence, it was forced to swing to the centre lane.

Thankfully, it had not been sandwiched between my car and the one before it, both of which were bigger and stronger cars.

Chances are, the passengers might not have survived the crash.

Also, when the car swerved into the centre lane, I was thankful that another car had not crashed into it.

If that happened, it was highly possible that the passengers would not have survived it.

What was scarier was that the lady sitting at the front seat of the car that was before me did not put on her seat belt or perhaps it was not functioning at all.

To make matters worse, she was carrying a baby in her hands. You can imagine the horror that could have happened.

I could have become a murderer or what lawyers might call a culpable homicide not amounting to murder.

Last, I was also told by the police that I was lucky that another vehicle did not crash into the back of my car.

If it was a heavy duty vehicle, it could have smashed all the cars together and caused them to explode in flame. That was definitely not my idea of blazing the way forward in life.

I’m grateful and thankful that our Creator had protected me and given me a new lease of life.

After staring squarely at death and at such a close range, I had a much deeper appreciation of life.

I felt like I’ve been given a new life and needed to live it differently and much better than I have ever done before.

I had also realized that having a new beginning is a necessity to live a meaningful and fulfilling life.

You need to plan to re-start your life and do it again… and again…

It is strange but true that you cannot fully appreciate life if you do not realise that death may just be around the corner.

If you don’t think you will die, you will never transform yourself to live a better life. In the same way, if you don’t think you will fail, you will never want to change.

If you want to live fully, you need to die to yourself so that you can live for a mission that is much bigger than yourself.

A life without dreams and purpose is mere existence. Not having something to look forward to is worse than death.

You live only when you have a sense of purpose and destiny.

To help you discover your purpose and calling in life, let me take you through a series of exercises.

However, to benefit fully from it, you need to take time off to reflect about your life. You need to work diligently through the exercises.

Phase 1: The Modelling Process

Success leaves footprints.

If you follow the footsteps of successful people,
you will reach the same destination.

That’s why you need to have heroes and mentors. These are people who will challenge you to live beyond yourself and stretch you beyond the normal limit.

They inspire you to emulate and model after them. In doing so, you take yourself to a higher level.

You need to work towards a “new you” and press on with commitment, discipline, and perseverance until you become that better person.

Ask yourself:

Who should be your models and heroes in life and for different areas of your life?

What makes them great? What are the qualities, lifestyle, and resources that make them great?

How did they develop these qualities? What did they do? What did they have?

What is the priority of their values that you would like to adopt for your life?

How can you live your life so that you can become like them?

What else can you do to become like them?

Phase 2: The Designing Process

While it is important to model after successful people, you will realise that you can never be totally like them.

You need to work with our Creator to design the best you.

Ask yourself:

What is the “best me” that you can ever be?

How can you bring out the best in yourself?”

What should you start/stop doing? What should you do more/do less?

What is the priority of actions you need to take to develop yourself and do it in a sustainable way?

Phase 3: The Leveraging Process

Buckminster Fuller, one of the most brilliant men in the last century taught the importance of using leverages to achieve success.

To him, leverage means to do ever more with ever less. The ever-improvement process will eventually lead you to your desired objectives.

To begin with, you can achieve quantum leaps of improvement through internal leverages, including your Knowledge, Attitude, Skills and Habits (KASH).

There are also external leverages, including capitalising on ideas, system, technology, human talent, and other resources.

You have to acquire or develop these leverages and learn how to use them effectively and efficiently.

Ask yourself:

What leverages can you use to do ever more with ever less?

How can you acquire and develop these leverages to achieve ever-improving results?

How can you use each of these leverages effectively and efficiently?

How can you improve your knowledge, attitude, skills, and habits to achieve quantum leaps of improvement?

How can you work on ideas, system, technology, human talent, and other resources to help take you to a higher level in life?

After you have completed the above exercises, work with our Creator to produce a ‘movie’ of your future life.

This is to depict how you can take yourself from where you are until you become the person you should be.

To prepare for the movie, you need to work through your personal philosophy.

You need to know your mission, vision, values, and positioning before you can live a desired lifestyle.

Phase 4: The Mission Process

The first step is to craft a personal mission for your life.

I believe every one of us must serve a unique purpose at every season of our life.

It may not be the most perfect purpose but it is the most appropriate purpose for you at that stage in your life.

In crafting the mission, you need to ask yourself, “Why do I exist at this point in my life? What is the highest purpose for me to serve?”

Your personal mission should then be phrased in the form of a question.

I believe the quality of your life depends on the quantity of quality questions you ask yourself throughout your life.

For example, if you regularly ask yourself, “How can I live a great life?” You will be exploring and working regularly on how to achieve greatness.

On the other hand, if you constantly ask yourself, “How come my life is so horrible?” Everything in your life will become darker and gloomier.

Without finding your personal mission, you will not have a compass to point you to the right direction.

You will find yourself moving around in the dark, trying to find your way out of the jungle of life.

Other questions you can ask yourself:

Why do you exist?

What does our Creator wants you to do with your life?

At the end of your life, when you reflect on it, what will make you happy and be satisfied about your life?

What do you want people to say about you during your funeral?

If there is a book written about you, what would it say about the key accomplishments in your life?

What would be your legacy to the world?

Assuming you are going to receive an award, what do you want the organizer to say about you, your achievement, and your contribution?

Exercise: You are standing in front of your Creator, what will you tell Him about what you have done in your life?

Phase 5: The Vision Process

After crafting your personal mission, work with our Creator to discover your vision in life.

The Good Book counselled, ‘Without vision, the people perish.’

When you have nothing to look up to and live for, you will go through a death that is worse than a physical death?

Life will not be worth living.

I believe our Creator has already given to each one of us a vision. Oftentimes, amidst the noise and haste, we fail to recognize the vision.

During my life transformational bootcamp, every participant is given a huge blank sheet of paper and told to draw their vision in life. They are not allowed to use words but only pictures, signs, and symbols in different colour.

Then, I ask them to further define it using all their senses. In other words, they need to be able to see, hear, smell, taste and feel it in their mind.

When the vision is constantly clear in their mind, it will draw them like a magnet to fulfil it.

Ask yourself:

How should you translate your mission into a vision?

If you meet your friends 20 years from today, how would you tell them about what you have achieved in your life?

If you have fulfilled your mission in life, what would you have accomplished?

What specific achievements and contributions have you made?

If you can accomplish anything in life, what do you wish to achieve?

What can you do so that it will make the greatest impact on yourself and on your loved ones, family, workplace, organization, and the world?

If there is a best-selling movie about your life, what would it depict about your achievement, contribution, and legacy?

Phase 6: The Values Process

I believe nobody will follow you or work with you if they don’t know what you believe in and stand for. In other words, you need to craft your values and live by them.

I believe you already have a set of values and are living by it consciously or unconsciously.

Unfortunately, as a result of your education and experience, you may have adopted the wrong or less optimal set of values.

Every now and then, you need to re-craft your value system so that it will help you serve the highest purpose for that period of time.

In addition, you need to prioritise your list of values so that it can help you live a better life.

Ask yourself:

What are the values that are important to you?

What values do you love to have?

When people talk about you, what do you hope they will say about your greatest qualities?

What do you want to be known for?

What values do you hope to impart to your children?

What do you want to see written on your tombstone/obituary?

What values do you need to have so that it will help you to live a happy, meaningful, and fulfilling life?

What values will help to attract great people to you?

What values do you need to fulfil your mission and vision?

If in the book of life where your name is recorded in heaven and there is a column about your values, what will these values be?

It may sound strange to you but every time I do this exercise and reconstruct my value system, I feel like I have redesigned myself and restarted my life all over again.

Phase 7: The Positioning Process

Success is about positioning yourself in the right place and at the right time, and making full use of that position for your long term growth.

Having said that, you need to continue to find meaning, excitement, and significance for your current position.

At the same time, you need to improve your position to achieve better values and results.

Being fully present while thinking about your future are not necessarily contradictory forces.

Learn to apply the wisdom of F. Scott Fitzgerald. He said, “The test of a first rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function.”

You need to be contented and to make full use of your life. At the same time, you should be results-oriented and aim for better things in life.

For instance, as an entrepreneur, I need to focus on a strategic target market. However, as I strive to be a leader in it, I should not be blinded to other opportunities in the market.

Positioning depends on finding the equilibrium to five dimensions in life.

Purpose: What should you do in life?

Priority: What is important for you to do?

Passion: What do you love to do?

Performance: What can you do well and do better than others?

Personality: What fits your personality, behavioral style, strengths, gifts, and talents?

You need to continue to ask yourself these questions both on a personal as well as on a professional basis and in doing so, find your place under the sun.

Phase 8: The Execution Process

There are many dreamers but not many are doers.

There are only a rare few who are achievers.

These achievers not only dream but they also do whatever it takes to make their dreams come true.

The key difference between those who merely dream and those who make dreams come true is just one word – Execution.

Execution is the discipline and ability to act on your dream. It is also the process of improving on your action to achieve a greater dream.

As a dreamer, you must also be a doer.

It is not enough to aspire, you must act. It is also not enough to execute, you must excel in your execution.

Good motives must lead to motion. Movements must be accelerated to lead to greater achievements.

You must take the first step, and then another better step, and another even better step…until your dream comes to pass.

Ask yourself:

What must I start doing?

What must I stop doing?

What must I do more of?

What must I do less of?

Put together a detailed blueprint of action and discipline yourself to execute it.

Then coach and mentor others on how they can also improve their value-additions and achieve better results.

The worse failure is a failure to try. When you stop trying, failure becomes permanent.

It is the size of your dream, the tenacity of your faith in it, and the ability to take ever-improving action that will help you go further and faster to achieve your dream.

When you step out of your home tomorrow, you will have the opportunity to create an exciting new world.

You can create a world that has never existed before. A world that you have been longing for, one that will pave the way for a brighter future.

Phase 9: The Improvement Process

Ask yourself these questions regularly and you will improve your work and life.

1. Effectiveness question

How can I achieve better outcomes, results, and impacts?

For instance, recently I took an interest in photography with my iPhone.

To take a good photo, I know that I must choose the right target and position it correctly on my screen.

2. Efficiency question

How can I achieve effective results in a better, cheaper, and faster way?

Taking the same instance of photography, I need to not only have the right content, I need to also take the photo in the correct way.

3. Execution question

How can I implement the improvement?

I need to implement the correct skills and techniques to take an exceptional photo.

4. Efficacy question

How can I systemize my tasks and teach others the system so that they can enjoy the same improvement and achieve the same or better results?

I am not a good photographer because I learned from a novice who could only explain the functions of the camera to me.

A good trainer in photography should know how to pass his “kung fu” to me.

If I improve my competency, I would like to pass on a better set of skills to my students. By doing that, I can help both myself and my students to raise the quality and standards of photography.

I hope that by asking these “4Es Questions” regularly and taking massive actions, you will do a better job and take yourself to a higher level.

I have left out many personal details in this Love Note.

Suffice to say, you need to be committed to change and continue to change so as to achieve sustainable success.

More importantly, you need to go beyond yourself and your self-interests to live for others.

Abraham Maslow called this the self-transcendence level or the highest level of human needs.

In other words, you should live beyond yourself to serve a higher purpose in helping others live a better life and making our world a better home.

The more you reach out to bless others, the richer and better your life will become.


I hope this message will find a place in your heart.

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About Patrick Liew
About Patrick Liew Patrick Liew MBA, MSc, BSc is the Managing Partner of Global Enterprise Exchange Pte. Ltd.. He is also the founder and director of Success Resources, arguably the world’s largest personal development seminar organiser and a major shareholder of a company, which is listed on the Australian Stock Exchange. He was previously the Executive Chairman and CEO of HSR Global Ltd., a publicly listed company on SGX-ST. Previously, he was the regional director of the Gartner Group, providing strategic advisory and planning services to governments, banks and MNCs. He was also the regional head of sales and marketing operation for Dow Jones Telerate. Patrick graduated with a BSc in Estate Management from Heriot Watt University, an MSc with emphasis in global business and marketing from The City University Of New York, and an MBA from Henley Business School / Brunel University. He has also earned more than nine other professional qualifications. Patrick is arguably the first person to develop a multimedia e-learning programme on entrepreneurship. He authored a Chinese book on business systems and was also the co-author of a Times Bookshop best-selling book. Patrick has conducted both ‘brick and mortar’ and online lessons for participants from more than 60 countries. He has also conducted keynote presentations in many international conferences, including being the first Singaporean to teach at the National Association of Realtors. Through his team at Success Resources, Patrick has organised educational conferences for prominent leaders such as President Bill Clinton, Prime Minister Tony Blair, Michael Porter, Richard Branson, Robert Kiyosaki, Donald Trump, and many other prominent leaders. Patrick provides leadership and advisory services to many professional and charity organisations. He is actively involved in supporting humanitarian, philanthropic and charity causes. He has organised three fund-raising events and in the process, help to set three national records in the Singapore Books Of Records. Patrick won the Entrepreneur Of the Year Award For Social Contribution, the Asia Pacific Entrepreneurship Award, and six other business awards. Patrick believes the best way to live your life is to live your life for others. The more you reach out to bless other lives, the richer and better your life will become. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- A Personal Note to my Friends The articles that I post online; or what I term as Love Notes, are written with the purpose of inspiring readers to live at a higher plane in life. They are also meant to motivate those who are struggling in life and help them find handlers to overcome their conflicts and challenges. It is my ardent hope that we will form networks and alliances of like-minded people who will put to right many of the wrongs in our midst. Together, we will leverage on each other's resources and create a synergistic impact in making our world a better home. These articles are written as part of regular reflection about the vicissitudes of life. They are at best work in progress and at worst, grumblings, grouses, and gripings of a finite old man. I have deliberately decided NOT to delete many of the articles and pointers that I may not agree with or are outrightly wrong. This is to keep a record of how my personal ideas, beliefs, and values have evolved over time. In addition, I hope to encourage readers by letting them know that I also make mistakes and am struggling with many of the complexity and complication in life. As long as we hang on to hope and work on finding a solution, there will be light at the end of whatever tunnel we are in. I do not pretend to know everything or for that matter, anything of substance. In fact, the more I study, learn, and think about the vast wisdom and knowledge out there, the more I realised how little I know about life and the ways of life. Hence, I have always ended my article by asking readers to continue to teach me. For I, too, am a sojourner in the exploration of truth and the adventure of finding meaning, purpose, and significance for my existence. I am proud of and make no apology for being a Christian, albeit not the most exemplary one. I believe our Creator can lead and guide us to be the best that we can ever be. I bear full responsibility for the shortcoming and error in my life, including my words. The fault is entirely mine and not due to anyone else. Readers have and can exercise the power of choice. They can discard what will not work for them and adopt those that can propel them further and faster in the pursuit of better performance, outcomes, and fulfillment. If I have disappointed or hurt you in any way, form, or manner, I would like to apologise to you. Please do not hold them against me or whoever or whatever is related to me. There are much to pray about, learn, and do. And I'll work on them with a sense of urgency. I hold on to the belief that 'Anything worth doing is worth doing with passion and excellence'. I'll endeavour to live by it. Life is short. There's no dress rehearsal and neither can we turn back the clock to change the drama of life. Therefore, by the grace and power of our Creator, let's live a full life and live it to the fullest. May God bless you abundantly on the journey of life. Your online servant, Patrick Liew I hope this message will find a place in your heart. By the way, I have also recorded other reflections. Please 'Like' me on https://m.facebook.com/patrickliewsg Visit my Inspiration blog at https://liewinspiration.wordpress.com/ For my opinions on social affairs, please visit my Transformation blog at http://hsrpatrickliew.wordpress.com/ Please visit my website, http://www.patrickliew.net Please read my reflection and continue to teach me. Life is FUNtastic!

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